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These links tell our personal stories. We are individuals who have struggled with laziness in our lives. Each of us have been able to connect with an encouraging friend in order to help us to move towards our own picture of what constitutes a healthy and normal level of self-exertion.
Our purpose in sharing these stories is to let people know that laziness is real. Although we are not trained in medicine or psychology, we believe, based on our personal experience, that there is a sense in which our own laziness exists independently of any physical or mental illness.
Of course, there are many physical and mental sicknesses which have the symptoms of weakness and/or low productivity. It is an unfortunate coincidence that laziness has very similar symptoms because that can make it difficult for an individual to distinguish the root issue in his or her own life. This is particularly true when someone is suffering from a mental or physical illness and, simultaneously, affected by laziness. Many of us have been (or are now) in that situation.
Others of us have not been victims of any physical or mental illness – at least none to speak of. We are just plain lazy.
We hope that, by telling our stories, we can help to remove some of the stigma that surrounds laziness so that more people would be willing to seek treatment from the debilitation that it causes. Our thinking is that our laziness is a symptom of a disease of the mind and the spirit. It seems to be caused by a combination of false beliefs and an inclination towards a type of moral weakness – and maybe a kind of immaturity, too. In any case, in this sense, we believe that laziness is a symptom of a disease that is just as real as any of the other “regular” diseases.
1) Debilitated by intermittent laziness for his entire adult life. Occasionally productive and focused. A history of substance abuse. Money as an enabler. In and out of college many times. Symptoms of mental illness. Wondering where to draw the line between pain due to mental illness vs pain due to foolish choices? Social consequences. Some lost opportunities. Several long stretches of unemployment and not looking for work. Finally becoming successful in a career. Taking an early “retirement.” Is it retirement or just another long stretch of discouraging inactivity? Working with an accountability partner. Read the full story [here].
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